No, it's really, really not hopeless. It's actually not even hard. They teach respect from ages 2 and up, even Legos aren't meant for kids that young. You treat a girl with respect, just like you'd treat your grandparents, your teacher, or your boss at work. Normally I wouldn't bother respond to an appeal that's already been denied, but I feel like you learning this lesson is important enough. Your appeal is still denied, but at least try and learn from it. Next time you go for an unban, show up prepared.
Human embodiment of Murphy’s Law, at your service!