[Penguin]

Those are some great goals to have; everyone should work towards trying to help their peers. All of our staff members are people who have been active and friendly on the server for some time. They're trusted by the community and know how to deal with various problems that players could have. While there's no "method" or guaruntee that anyone can become staff, it's important to try to be the best you you can be. That will benefit you and your friends regardless of whether you are staff or not.

As for making changes to the server, these forums have a suggestions section to let people suggest changes. It's usually a good idea to think hard about your suggestions before you post them though, so that you have solid arguments and insight into the problem. Talking about it with friends will also help you to form a useful suggestion, or modify it to incorporate different views.