(01-16-2020, 12:25 PM)melaniebeedot Wrote: When I first approached you regarding the grief, you immediately became defensive, arguing that your destruction of the village was justified, that it wasn't grief because it "wasn't claimed."
In fact, you argued with me about what constitutes a claim for... 7 straight minutes.
It was at that point that your friend had returned to the village and continued griefing, so i had to stop and deal with them first before any more destruction occurred. I had just about had enough of them trolling me and wasting my time and had decided to just ban them and roll back all the grief, when I saw you log out of the game. At that time, 15 minutes had passed.
It had not been an hour. Nothing was ''fine''. And you left.
So yes, I banned you, for the grief, and the arguing. I never even mentioned banning you two, I decided to speak with you first and hear you out, I came over to your base to see if the village was in fact within range of your claim, and I was simply trying to get the story straight. You chose to leave before it was resolved.
Like I said, it was a genuine misunderstanding on my part and you mistake my attempt to clarify that misunderstanding as me being aggressive/argumentative yet again, fine... your cites only prove my point. You also purposely left out our texts back and forth where we talked about a role back. Also I have no control over that person nor was I involved with that, I left because I clearly wasn't welcome in that town I had been going to before those people apparently claimed it. Like I said I am truly sorry, and its not like a situation like this would ever even happen again, but I can see there will probably be no further progression here. Shame...