[SamsterBirdies]

Server you were banned on (SMP/Discord): SMP

Minecraft name: SamsterBirdies

Reason for your ban: Sexism/disturbance.

Who banned you: derpedos

Why should you be unbanned: To be fair, I was offline while I was banned,
so I cannot pinpoint what I said that was sexist and got me banned.
I'm not exactly sure how to go about this.
I'm sorry for whoever I offended with my supposed sexism though...
The disturbance is the second part. People were annoyed because I wanted /artmap and love.
You can get /artmap by VIP(and i also thought admin). So i kept asking to become an admin,
because voting every day for a month or paying 10$ is simply too much for just /artmap.
But I wanted to be an admin for more than just /artmap. Most people on the server hate me,
and probably never want me to come back and stay banned forever.
Everyone is supposed to respect the admins. Most people love the admins. So naturally,
if I was an admin, the server would love me too right? Id no longer be nobody.

But thats wrong. The reason they get chosen admins is because they are loved and
they are helpful to everyone. And if I think about it aswell, The only staff I feel comfortable with
on this server is uber. I actually feel more sour towards the other staff. So that alone proves that
being staff doesnt magically make you liked, that is, if I were a normal person...
It makes me upset. So a lot of times im mean to other players. but it hurts me instead so...

Why do you want to come back:
Seriously. You are supposed to be honest in the appeal. Fine.
In my last "not really of an appeal" I stated that I was going to get married to PrincessTricky.
Yes. I want to be unbanned and come back to marry her. I miss her a bit... That is the main reason
I want to be unbanned. I sound like an idiot. But It would be worse if i lied and said I wanted to
keep building my house (which i have stated many times i have nothing to build) or talk to the
people that hate me...

sorry its a bit long, but its just difficult to explain something like this.

edit: oops I copied the entire "code" thing that was in frosts post instead of the stuff inside of it.

[derpedo]

The fact that you are unaware of what got you banned only goes to show that you need to take a step back and re-evaluate your actions before you can fix them.

The disturbance aspect wasn't because you wanted to be staff, but because every time you logged on you challenged and complained about the rules without fail. You would constantly bring up controversial topics in chat, and became very aggravated when told to stop, resulting in you talking back to staff. In terms of sexism, you spent over half of your time here degrading women, objectifying them, and just acting very unpleasant towards other players.

During your short time here you managed to break numerous rules and commit multiple offences, and proceeded to refuse to correct them after being scolded.

As for the whole "marrying PrincessTricky" part... well. I'll tell you one thing for sure- you being banned isn't what's stopping you.

Personally, I think it would be in your best interest to improve your behaviour. Take some time to find some respect and maturity. Grow up a little, maybe.

However, until then, your appeal is denied.

[SamsterBirdies]

what!? degrading women? in what way? and over half my time? at least give me one example.  i LOVE girls. why would i put them down? ive mostly only played with girls on this server aswell.  i even stated in chat so many dang times that i love girls and want a girlfriend. Yes i have argued about the rules. But i can only think of 2. about how 15 characters of caps is fine but 16 is a kick. Also how mentioning other servers is not allowed. is nobody allowed to  discuss about the law? Yes i have brought up controversial topics. they were quite peaceful and i see it quite healthy to seek others opinions that are different than yours. Do you prefer group polarizations? then i talked back to staff. i suppose. but comeon wouldnt you at least be mildly annoyed if someone shutdown like 4 conversations in an hour? The part i will own is being unpleasant towards other players. Being rude is something i have trouble with and i wont go any further than that because i already stated my rudeness in my appeal. I know staff rarely reply twice to an appeal thread, but if you do read this: atleast just answer the sexism part. that is my main concern.

edit: spelling. like always.

[derpedo]

You literally said it right there. You always talk about girls. In fact, you never stopped talking about girls. Believe it or not, that makes people uncomfortable. You always said things which made women on the server feel like literal objects, which, surprise, is disrespectful.


Exhibit 1: You log on, see that there are "no girls to hit on." You leave.

   
Exhibit 2: You complain about not having a girlfriend. A member makes a joke, and you say:

   
Exhibit 3: "Looks are everything."

   
Exhibit 4: Your very questionable choice in Fortnite characters.

   
Exhibit 5: You going on about your dreams of having a girlfriend. And what you'd do with her.

   
Exhibit 6: Something nobody needed to hear you say.

[01:42:10] [main/INFO]: [CHAT] [Regular] SamsterBirdies >> uhh.. i need to take care of my arousal
[01:42:22] [main/INFO]: [CHAT] [Regular] SamsterBirdies >> sooo....

Exhibit 7: More dreams we didn't need to know about.

[04:18:17] [main/INFO] [net.minecraft.client.gui.GuiNewChat]: [CHAT] [Regular] SamsterBirdies >> i dont want a body pillow i want a sexdoll

Exhibit 8: More info we didn't need. Again.

[04:18:59] [main/INFO] [net.minecraft.client.gui.GuiNewChat]: [CHAT] [Regular] SamsterBirdies >> pornhub makes me cum

Exhibit 9: Need I explain?

[04:19:43] [main/INFO] [net.minecraft.client.gui.GuiNewChat]: [CHAT] [Regular] SamsterBirdies >> egghead would you like to read a minecraft book its 18 pages about my crush

Now, about the whole "15 is fine, 16 is a kick." Have you ever heard of a limit? Ever heard of breaking one?

You can't compare a minecraft server to literal law. That's just not how it works. Talking about another server is considered advertising, which is against the rules. Maybe you should've read those.

You mention bringing up controversial topics, but in a peaceful way, somehow? Must I give you that defintion of controversial?

You admit to talking back to staff, but blame it on the fact that we made you drop four topics in a single hour. Do you know how many times a staff member usually has to tell somebody to drop a topic in a day? One. Maybe that says something about the things you were discussing, and not about the way staff acts. 

You only proved my words even further when I said you needed to be more mature before staff will even consider unbanning you.

[SamsterBirdies]

sigh, i give up. i will never know how to treat a girl. its hopeless

[Star]

No, it's really, really not hopeless. It's actually not even hard. They teach respect from ages 2 and up, even Legos aren't meant for kids that young. You treat a girl with respect, just like you'd treat your grandparents,  your teacher, or your boss at work. Normally I wouldn't bother respond to an appeal that's already been denied, but I feel like you learning this lesson is important enough. Your appeal is still denied, but at least try and learn from it. Next time you go for an unban, show up prepared.

[SamsterBirdies]

how do i show up prepared next time?

[SamsterBirdies]

like do i start a new appeal or continue here?

[Star]

I’d suggest starting a new appeal and going all out with a heartfelt message, whatever you feel is necessary.